Today, Islam is the
greatest force in the world. Its enemies cannot do it any
harm. It is like a mighty oak which the storms of the
world cannot uproot. Yet there was a time when this
mighty oak was a tiny sapling, and desperately needed
someone to protect it from the hurricanes of idolatry and
polytheism which threatened to uproot it.
Muslims may forget it but Islam cannot forget that in its
infancy, it were Abu Talib and Khadija who protected it.
They made Islam invulnerable. Abu Talib protected the
sapling of Islam from the tempests of misbelief and
heathenism; and Khadija irrigated it with her wealth. She
did not let the sapling of Islam die from draught. In
fact, she didn't even let it wilt from neglect.
Protecting Islam was, for Abu Talib and Khadija, their
foremost duty. Islam was their first love, and it was a
love which they passed on, as their "legacy" to
their children. If they - Abu Talib and Khadija - had
protected the tree of Islam from its enemies in the
lifetime of Muhammed Mustafa, and had
"irrigated" it with vast quantities of gold and
silver, their children and their grandchildren protected
it, from its enemies after his death, and irrigated it
with their blood. Their blood was the most sacrosanct
blood in all creation. After all, it was the blood of
Muhammed Mustafa himself - the Last and the Greatest of
all Messengers of Allah, and the Chief of all Apostles
and Prophets.
Khadija was an
"eye-witness" of the birth of Islam. She nursed
it through its infancy, through its most difficult, and
through its most formative years. Islam was given shape
and design in her home. If any home can be called the
cradle of
Islam, it was her home. She "reared" Islam. If
any home can be called the "axis" of Islam, it
was her home; Islam revolved around her home. Her home
was the "home" of Quran Majid the Book of
Allah, and the religious and political code of Islam.
It was in her home that Gabriel was bringing Revelations
from Heaven for ten years.
Khadija has collected more
"firsts" in the history of nascent Islam than
anyone else. She was the first wife of the last messenger
of Allah. She was the first Believer. She was the very
first mortal to declare that the Creator was only One,
and that Muhammed was His messenger. Next to her husband,
she was the very first individual who heard the Voice of
Revelation. She was the first person who offered prayers
to Allah with her husband. Whenever he went into the
presence of Allah, she was his constant companion. She
was the first Mother of Believers. She was the only wife
of Muhammed Mustafa who did not have to co-exist with a
co-wife. All the love, all the affection and all the
friendship of her husband, were hers and hers alone
exclusively!
When Muhammed Mustafa
proclaimed his mission as the messenger of Allah, and
told the Arabs not to worship idols, and called upon them
to rally under the banner of Tauheed, a tidal wave of
sorrows broke upon him. The polytheists began to thirst
for his blood. They invented new and ingenious ways of
tormenting him, and they made many attempts to stifle his
voice forever. In those times of stress and distress,
Khadija was a bastion of strength for him. It was only
because of her and Abu Talib that the polytheists could
not disrupt his work of preaching and propagating Islam.
She made, in this manner, a most important contribution
to the survival and propagation of Islam.
Khadija set basic standards that spell domestic peace,
harmony, happiness and fulfillment, and she upheld and
reflected them in her life. She demonstrated that the key
to a family's strength and happiness is the degree of
emotional closeness between its members. She spelled out
the rights and duties of husbands and wives. The
standards set by her, became the "blueprint"
for family life in Islam. Muhammed Mustafa and Khadija
spent twenty-five years together, and in those years,
they formulated the "laws" that make a marriage
successful and a life happy. Since then, even in temporal
terms, the rest of the world has not been able to find
better laws. Islam incorporated the same laws in its own
programme.
Khadija turned the abstractions of idealism into reality.
Her life with Muhammed is concrete evidence of that fact.
What she gave to the world was not merely a set of
principles or theoretical ideas but an experience, rich
in moments of pure enchantment with Islam, and subtle
rhythms of love for Allah and His Messenger.
As mentioned earlier, the
pagan Arabs had a sense of honor gone all awry. It was
their "sense of honor" which impelled them to
kill their daughters. Islam of course put an end to this
barbaric and horrendous practice by making it at once a
sin against Allah, and a crime against humanity. Besides
putting an end to female infanticide, Islam also gave
dignity, honor and rights to women, and it guaranteed
those rights.
Allah Ta'ala wished to demonstrate th;lt the laws of
Islam were all practicable. To demonstrate the
practicability of those laws, and to show the Islamic
"Design of Life," He chose the house of His
slaves, Muhammed and Khadija. Without Khadija, the laws
of Islam would have remained meaningless. In fact, it is
even possible that Muhammed Mustafa could not have
promulgated those laws without her.
One of the greatest blessings that Muhammed Mustafa and
Khadija received from Allah Ta'ala was their daughter,
Fatima Zahra. As noted before, Fatima was born after the
death of her brothers, Qasim and Abdullah. She was only
five years old when her mother died. After the death of
her mother, Muhammed Mustafa, the messenger of Allah,
became both a father and a mother for her. In bringing up
his daughter, the Messenger of Allah was demonstrating
the applicability of the laws of Islam. Since he is the
model for all Muslims, they have to imitate him in all
his deeds. He bestowed the utmost love upon, and showed
the greatest respect to his daughter.
Both in Makka and in Medina, many important persons, such
as princes and leaders of powerful tribes, came to see
the messenger of Allah. He never rose from the ground to
greet any of them. But if he heard that his daughter,
Fatima Zahra, was coming to see him, he rose from the
floor, went forward to greet her, escorted her back, and
gave her the place of honor to sit. He did not show so
much esteem and regard to anyone at any time in his life
- man or woman!
SUCH IS THE BOUNTY OF ALLAH, WHICH HE BESTOWS ON WHOM HE
WILL: AND ALLAH IS THE LORD OF THE HIGHEST BOUNTY.
(Quran Majid. Chapter 62; verse 4)
Allah Ta'ala bestowed His Bounty upon Fatima Zahra, the
daughter of His friend and His messenger, Muhammed
Mustafa.
It was Khadija's only
daughter, Fatima Zahra, who became the recipient of the
accolades of Heaven in the 76th chapter of Quran Majid -
Sura Dahr. In fact, the whole chapter is
"dedicated" to her and to her family comprising
her husband, Ali ibn Abi Talib; her children, Hasan and
Husain; and her maid, Fizza. She also became the
"exegesis" of the 108th Chapter of Quran Majid
- Sura Kauthar (=Abundance). Allah Ta'ala gave Khadija a
son-in-law like Ali ibn Abi Talib who became the Lion of
Allah; "the Right Arm of Islam;" and the shield
and buckler of Muhammed Mustafa; and He gave her
grandsons like Hasan and Husain who became the Riders of
the Shoulders of the Messenger of Allah, and "the
Princes of the Youth of Heaven."
Without a doubt, Islam means the practice of the house of
Khadija; and without a doubt, Quran Majid is the
"dialect" of her family. Her daughter, Fatima
Zahra, and her grand-children, Hasan and Husain, grew up
"speaking" Quran Majid. She has the same
relationship to Islam and Quran Majid that light has to
the eyes, lustre to a pearl; and fragrance to a rose.
Even the most eloquent of languages fails adequately to
express or fittingly to commend, Khadija's merits. But
Allah Ta'ala has promised His reward to his loving slaves
like
Khadija in the following verses of His Book:
THOSE WHO HAVE FAITH AND
DO RIGHTEOUS DEEDS, - THEY ARE THE BEST OF CREATURES.
THEIR REWARD IS WITH ALLAH: GARDENS OF ETERNITY, BENEATH
WHICH RIVERS FLOW; THEY WILL DWELL THEREIN FOR EVER;
ALLAH WELL PLEASED WITH THEM, AND THEY WITH HIM: ALL THIS
FOR SUCH AS FEAR THEIR LORD AND CHERISHER. (Chapter 98;
verses 7, 8)