The five paladins of Makka
had trampled upon the covenant of the Quraysh to boycott
the Bani Hashim. Thanks to their chivalry and gallantry,
the Bani Hashim could return to the city, and live in
their homes once again. But they had barely begun to
recover from the rigors of living in a mountain hideout
for three years, when Khadija, the wife, the companion
and the friend of Muhammed Mustafa, the Messenger of
Allah; and the benefactress of Islam and the Muslims,
fell ill. Her illness was brief but fatal. All her life
she had lived in the midst of abundance and luxury but
the three years of exile had been a time of excessive
austerity for her which inevitably took its toll.
As noted before, Khadija was the first woman to declare
that the Creator was One, and that Muhammed was His
Messenger. The glory and honor of being the First
Believer in the whole world, is hers to all eternity.
When Islam came under mounting pressure from its enemies,
Khadija sacrificed her comfort, her wealth and her home
for it; and now it would appear that she sacrificed her
life also. Without a doubt, if she had lived in her
palatial house in Makka, surrounded by her maid-servants,
she might have lived for many more years. But she
preferred to stand by her husband and his clan, and to
share the bitters of life with them. During the siege,
she had to endure not only the pangs of hunger and thirst
but also the extremes of heat in summer and cold in
winter; yet she never complained to her husband about
them. Whether times were good or bad, whether she had
plenty or she had nothing, she was always cheerful.
Austerity and privation never soured her. It was this
temperament that was an unfailing source of comfort,
courage and strength for her husband during the bleakest
moments of his life.
During the years of the siege, Khadija spent all her
fortune on buying essentials like food and water for the
clan of her husband. When she returned to her house, her
last cent was gone; and when she died, there was not
enough money available in the house even to buy a shroud.
A cloak of her husband was used as a shroud for her, and
she was given burial in it.
Muhammed Mustafa never took another wife as long as
Khadija lived, and if she had not died, it is most
probable that he would never have married any other
woman.
Edward Gibbon
During the 24-years of
their marriage, Khadija's youthful husband abstained from
the right of polygamy, and the pride or tenderness of the
venerable matron was never insulted by the society of a
rival. After her death, the Prophet placed her in the
rank of four perfect women, with the sister (sic) of
Moses, the mother of Jesus, and Fatima, the best beloved
of his daughters (sic).
(The Decline and Fall of the Roman Empire)
Muhammad ibn Ishaq, the biographer of the Prophet, says
that when there was resumption of Divine revelation,
after its cessation following the first two visits of
Gabriel, Khadija received a tribute and a salutation of
peace from Allah Ta'ala. The message was communicated to
Muhammed by Gabriel, and when he conveyed it to Khadija,
she said: "Allah is Peace (as-Salam), and from Him
is all Peace, and may peace be on Gabriel."
Muhammed forever remembered Khadija with affection,
gratitude and love. During her illness, he kept a
nightlong vigil nursing her, comforting her and praying
for her. He told her that Allah had promised Eternal
Bliss to her, and had built for her a palace of pearls in
Paradise. Toward morning her frail frame could not endure
the attack of fever any more and her sanctified and noble
soul left this earth for its destination in Heaven where
it entered the company of the immortals. Her death filled
Muhammed's heart with sorrow.
Khadija died on the tenth of Ramadan of the tenth year of
the Proclamation of Islam.
Khadija was buried in Hujun above Makka. Muhammed
Mustafa, the Messenger of Allah, himself descended into
her grave to lie in it for a few moments. Then he
assisted the other mourners in lowering the body into it.
After the burial, he smoothed the earth on her grave.
Thus died Khadija, the
first woman to believe in the Oneness of the Creator.
Peace on Khadija to whom Allah Ta'ala sent His
greetings and salutations.
Peace on Khadija for whom Allah Ta'ala built a palace
of pearls in Paradise.
Peace on Khadija, the best of women, and the chief of
all women.
Khadija died in 619. One month after her death, Muhammed
Mustafa had to sustain another shock in the death of Abu
Talib, his uncle and guardian, and the bulwark of Islam.
The death of these two friends - Khadija and Abu Talib -
was the greatest shock that the Apostle of God had to
endure in the fifty years of his life. The two lamps of
his life were extinguished. He was overwhelmed with
sorrow. He called the year of their death "the Year
of Sorrow."
The year 619 turned out to be a year of sorrow for
Muhammed Mustafa in more than one sense. The death of
one's loved ones is naturally an occasion for sorrow. But
in the case of Muhammed, the death of these two friends
was not merely a subjective experience for him. He was
soon made conscious of the meaning of their death by a
series of extraneous events.
Muhammad ibn Ishaq
Khadija and Abu Talib died in the same
year, and with Khadija's death troubles came fast one
after another. She had been a faithful supporter for him
in Islam, and he used to tell her of his troubles. With
the death of Abu Talib he lost a source of strength in
his personal life and a dcfence and protection against
his tribe. Abu Talib died three years before he
(Muhammed) migrated to Medina, and it was then that
Quraysh began to treat him in an offcnsive way which they
did not dare to follow in his uncle's lifetime. A young
lout actually threw dust on his head.
Hisham on the authority of his father, Urwa, told me that
the Prophet went into his house, and he was saying:
"Quraysh never treated me like this when Abu Talib
was alive."
(The Life of the Messenger of Allah)
Washington Irving
Mohammed soon became sensiblc of lhC
loss he had suslained in the dealh of Abu Talib who had
becn not merely an affectionate relative, but a steadfast
and powerful protector, from his great influence in
Mccca. At his death there was no one to check and
counteract the hostilities of Abu Sofian and Abu Jahl.
The fortunes of Mohammed were becoming darker and darker
in his native place. Khadija, his original benefactress,
the devoted companion of his solitude and seclusion, the
zealous believer in his doctrine, was dead; so also was
Abu Talib, once his faithful and efficient protector.
Deprived of the sheltering influence of the latter,
Mohammed had become, in a manner, an outlaw in Mecca,
obliged to conceal himself and remain a burden on the
hospitality of those whom his own doctrines had involved
in persecution (sic). If worldly advantage had been his
objective, how had it been attained?
(The Life of Mohammed)
Washington Irving has erred in stating that Muhammed had
become "a burden on the hospitality of those whom
his own doctrines had involved in persecution."
Muhammed was never a burden to anyone at any time. The
members of his clan - the Bani Hashim - considered it an
honor and a privilege to defend him and to protect Islam
- both of them their greatest treasures. They were aware
that with Muhammed in their midst, they had become the
recipients of the blessings of Heaven, and they had no
intention of forfeiting those blessings at any price.
Who else but the clan of Bani Hashim would defend
Muhammed and protect Islam? Muhammed was its flesh and
its blood, and Islam was its life and its love.
Another error that the distinguished
historian has made the question which he has posed:
"If worldly advantage had his (Muhammed's)
objective, how had it been attained?"
Attaining worldly advantage was not
Muhammed's objective. The Quraysh had offered him all the
worldly advantages; they offered him wealth, kingdom and
beauty. They were all his for the asking. But he kicked
at them. Could they offer him anything else?
Muhammed had only one objective and that was to carry out
the duty imposed upon him by Allah Ta'ala, namely, to
promulgate Islam - the Religion of Allah.
Sir William Muir
The sacrifices to which Abu Talib
exposed himself and his family for the sake of his
nephew, while yet incredulous of his mission (sic), stamp
his character as singularly noble and unselfish. They
afford at the same time strong proof of the sincerity of
Mohammed. Abu Talib would not have acted thus for an
interested deceiver; and he had ample means of scrutiny.
(The Life of Mohammed, London, 1877)
Sir William Muir further says in this
connection:
"If indeed, it had not been for the influence and
steadfast protection of Abu Talib, it is clear that the
hostile intentions of the Coreish would have imperilled
the liberty, perhaps the life, of Mohammed."
(The Life of Mohammed, London, 1877)
Jurji Zaydan
The reason why Abdul Muttalib made Abu
Talib the guardian of Muhammed, was that Abu Talib and
Abdullah were the children of the same mother. Without a
doubt, the proteclion of Abu Talib was the major cause
not only of the success of Muhammed's mission but also of
his physical survival. Abu Talib was a dignitary of
Quraysh, and a man of great prestige. Muhammed lived in
his house like one of his children...
(Complete Works, published by Dar-ul-Jeel, Beirut,
Lebanon, Volume 1, page 91. 1981)
Lt. General Sir John Glubb writes in his book, The Life
and Times of Mohammed, that Abu Talib is not considered a
hero by Muslims because he died in unbelief. But he adds,
"Nevertheless, if it had not been for the staunch
courage with which he stood by his nephew, Islam might
have died in its cradle."
Both Sir William Muir and Sir John
Glubb and many other historians have insinuated that Abu
Talib died in unbelief. If challenged to prove this, they
would advert to an authority like Imam Bukhari. Bukhari
says in one of the "traditions" that he has
collected that when Abu Talib was on his deathbed, the
Apostle urged him to become a Muslim but he said that
doing so would embarrass him with his Qurayshi friends.
The aulhors of this "tradition" forgot one
thing. Abu Talib was dying, and knew that he was not
going to see his Qurayshi "friends" any more.
He knew that he was going into the presence of his
Creator. At a time like this he could not have cared less
for the Quraysh. His anxiety at all times was to win the
pleasure of Allah. He proved by his deeds more than
anyone else could ever prove by his words that his faith
in the Oneness of God and in the mission of Muhammed as
His messenger, was rocklike and unshakable.
Amin Dawidar, the modern Egyptian historian, says that
Abu Talib was like a fortress for
Muhammed which sheltered him from all the heat and cold
and the contrariness and cussedness of the world outside.
"And when Abu Talib died," he says,
"Muhammed found himself face to face with the enemy
for the first time in his life. Without a doubt, the
death of Abu Talib was a great tragedy for him."
Abu Talib could not but be a Muslim and
a Momin. No man can love Muhammed and idolatry at the
same time; the two loves are mutually exclusive. And no
man can love Muhammed yet hate Islam. The love of
Muhammed and the hatred of Islam cannot coexist. Whoever
loves Muhammed, must inevitably love Islam. If there is
any one thing beyond any doubt in the history of Islam,
it is the love of Abu Talib for Muhammed. As noted
before, Abu Talib and his wife, loved Muhammed more than
they loved their own children. Such love could have had
only one fountainhead, namely, their conviction that
Islam was divine in its origins.
Abu Talib was proud that Allah had chosen Muhammed, the
son of his brother Abdullah, in all creation, to be His
last and greatest messenger to mankind. Muhammed was the
greatest love and the greatest pride of his uncle, Abu
Talib.
In His Book, Allah Ta'ala identified
the protection that Abu Talib gave to Muhammed Mustafa,
as His Own protection as per the following verse:
DID HE NOT FIND THEE AN ORPHAN AND GIVE
THEE SHELTER (AND CARE)?
Allah Ta'ala gave shelter (protection) and care to His
Messenger, Muhammed Mustafa, through His slave - Abu
Talib.
Abu Talib worked in Makka for the glory
and power of Islam, and he was the guardian of its
absolute and incontestable values. For ten years, he
steered the "vessel~ of Islam through dark and
turbulent seas with a skill, vision and faith that became
the dismay of the guardians of the idols of the pagans of
Arabia. His deeds are an integral part of the story of
Islam, and they are also the most eloquent testimony of
his faith in Allah and His Messenger - in Islam!
May Allah bless His loving slaves, Khadija and Abu Talib.
Both of them put obedience to Him ahead of everything
else in life.